Very often Kelvin would come home and tell me something like this: You know, my friends ask me what’s your profession, they say you look like celebrity, very beautiful :)
Looking at the happy smile on his face, I couldn’t help but think:
Am I “that” beautiful?
In fact, I honestly don’t think I am!
I have a very ordinary looking face, living a very ordinary life and a very ordinary skincare regimen. The only thing is different about me, I think, is a very special man that gives loving compliments to me everyday.
Compliments boost a person’s confidence to a whole new level. And if you’ve been getting positive comments on a daily basis, you tends to believe it’s true! And just when you believe it’s true, IT’S TRUE!! And when you are filled with confident, you are beautiful! That explains why normal-looking celebrities become more attractive and beautiful as time goes by! It’s the law of attraction, as simple as that!
Of course, it involves a lot of love too. Just like flowers, you have to give them water and fertilizer for them to turn into beautiful bloom. For women, love is the water and compliments are fertilizer!
So guys, the next time when your gf/wife asks you how do they look that day, please tell them they are the loveliest girl you’ve ever seen. Especially when they are feeling insecure about themselves (such as during pregnancy/when they wear make up/ when they don’t wear make up/when they are sick/ when they wear something they don’t normally wear…etc), please tell them they look gorgeous and you love them no matter how they look! Let me give you an example here:
Girl: I’m so fat! <—I am pretty sure you get this all the times~
Boyfriend 1: I have told you not to wear this dress, your legs look like elephant’s!
(This definitely not going to help her at all! In fact, it will turn her legs into elephant-like legs and she probably will not wear dress anymore!)
Girl: I’m so fat!
Boyfriend 2: I can’t see anything, I’m blinded by your beauty.
(Although she might know he’s lying, but she has got assurance that the man likes her as she is! And she will become better in carrying herself~)
The answer to making your wife beautiful is not about sponsoring her liposculpture sessions or sending her to aesthetic clinic for some face-works. It’s all about COMPLIMENTS.
Yes, I repeat, COMPLIMENTS!
So, if you are a girl wanting to look more beautiful, please train your boyfriend/husband to compliment you everyday no matter how you look like. And if you are a guy who wants to have a beautiful wife, please shower her with the most beautiful words you can ever think of! (If you don’t have anything good to say, just shut up and smile~)
“It is a great mistake for men to give up paying compliments, for when they give up saying what is charming, they give up thinking what is charming.” – Oscar Wilde
So here’s to Kelvin: If anyone compliment on your beautiful wife, it’s all because of you :)
Wishing everyone of you a beautiful week ahead!